This past Sunday, while at church, something caught me off guard: a woman with bright pink hair sitting near the front pew. I was taken aback, as I’ve always associated church with modesty and respect, not bold fashion statements.

As the preacher began his sermon, I couldn’t focus. My attention kept drifting back to the vivid pink hair, almost glowing in its brightness. Growing up, church attire was always understated, and I began questioning if I was wrong for thinking such a bold color was inappropriate for a sacred setting.

After the service, I saw the woman outside and, feeling conflicted, decided to approach her. I politely mentioned that bright colors might not be fitting for church. To my surprise, she responded sharply, saying, “I don’t think it’s any of your business. I come to church to pray, not to be judged.”

Her response stunned me. I hadn’t meant to judge or start a confrontation; I simply wanted to share my perspective. Now, I found myself questioning whether I had crossed a line.

For me, church has always been a place for humility and introspection, not for attention-grabbing fashion. But after her reaction, I began wondering if my views were outdated. Maybe today’s standards of self-expression are different, and I’m simply behind the times.

I’m curious if others share my perspective or if I’m out of touch. Should there still be some level of reverence in how we present ourselves at church, or is it okay to embrace a more relaxed, individual approach?